They are rated/loved by what they bring to the table.
Even dogs (pets) that contribute absolute nothing to the success of a home are loved unconditionally while love for men (in most cases) is conditional; what are you bringing to the table, bratha!!!!
Ironically, these are the same species that will lay their lives on the line, go fight in a war to ensure the safety of their loved ones, the same species that will be told "Sorry sir, women and children only"
The same ones that will starve, to ensure the young ones and the missus gets a better life, that they were deprived of.
Protector??? Ahhh we love you!! Provider???? Ahhh we love you!!!! Great lover??? You are the absolute best!!! Dont fail in any of those 👆👆, whatever you do.
If you are lucky, your children may love you when they are grown. Pray that in adulthood they realise that all the times you were away was all a sacrifice for them.
Don't forget to love on yourself brathas, the times are fleeting.
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